Your Rights and Responsibilities in a Home Sharing Arrangement

Home sharing is more than just a living arrangement. It is a partnership between the individual, their family, the provider, and the supporting agency. For families, knowing what rights you and your loved one have and the responsibilities that come with them helps create a safe and positive experience for everyone. 

This guide explains what to expect, how to prepare, and what steps to take if challenges arise. 

Your Rights in a Home Sharing Arrangement 

Individuals and their families can expect the following rights, along with examples of what they look like in daily life. 

1. A Safe and Respectful Home 

Every home sharing environment must be free from abuse, neglect, and discrimination. The individual has the right to a private bedroom and respect for personal belongings. 

What this looks like in daily life
The individual has a private room where they can relax and feel safe. Others knock before entering, and their personal items such as clothing, phone, or books are not moved or borrowed without permission. The provider maintains a calm and respectful tone at all times. Basic safety features like working smoke detectors and posted emergency contacts are present and reviewed. 

2. Dignity and Privacy 

Families can expect personal information to remain confidential unless sharing is required by law or agreed upon. The individual has the right to be treated with dignity and have their privacy respected. 

What this looks like in daily life
Discussions about health or finances happen privately. If personal care is needed, it is done respectfully and with the person’s involvement. The provider talks with the individual directly, not just about them. The individual’s space and preferences are honored. 

3. Inclusion and Choice 

The individual has the right to participate in community activities and make decisions about daily routines, relationships, and cultural practices. 

What this looks like in daily life
The individual is encouraged to take part in local events, join classes, or visit friends. They decide what to wear, how to spend their free time, and what activities to engage in. If they celebrate specific holidays or follow cultural or religious traditions, the provider supports these choices respectfully. 

4. Clear Information 

Families should expect transparency about roles, responsibilities, and financial arrangements. Any changes that affect the individual’s care or living situation must be communicated clearly. 

What this looks like in daily life
There is a written agreement that outlines expectations around routines, finances, and support. If something changes such as the provider’s schedule or household composition, it is shared ahead of time. Families receive timely updates and can ask questions when needed. 

5. Access to Support and Advocacy 

You have the right to contact the home sharing agency or Community Living BC (CLBC) if concerns arise. An advocate or support person can be requested for meetings or conflict resolution. 

What this looks like in daily life
The family and individual know who to call if something doesn’t feel right. If issues arise, they are supported in raising concerns without fear. A trusted friend, family member, or advocate can attend meetings for added support. The agency works with all parties to find fair and respectful solutions. 

Your Responsibilities in a Home Sharing Arrangement 

Along with rights, there are responsibilities that help maintain a positive home life: 

1. Respect the Household 

Families and individuals should follow agreed upon guidelines for shared spaces and respect the provider’s home and family. 

2. Communicate Honestly and Early 

Share preferences and concerns respectfully. If something is not working, raise the issue early to avoid escalation. 

3. Participate and Support 

Encourage involvement in household routines and community life. Your role includes supporting independence and well-being in collaboration with the provider. 

4. Honor Agreements 

Ensure financial agreements and any care commitments are understood and followed. Work with the provider and agency to set and achieve goals. 

What to Do If Problems Arise 

What to expect
Most issues can be resolved through open conversation, but support is available if needed. 

Steps to take
Start by having a calm conversation with the provider to understand each other’s concerns.
If the issue isn’t resolved, contact the home sharing agency for guidance.
You have the right to request a review or change if the situation becomes unsafe or unsuitable. 

How to Prepare as a Family 

Review the home sharing agreement carefully before moving forward.
Ask the agency what support is available to you and your loved one.
Stay engaged through regular communication and check-ins with the provider. 

Final Thoughts 

Understanding rights and responsibilities is key to making home sharing successful. It provides security for the individual and clarity for families and providers. When everyone works together with respect and open communication, home sharing can be a safe, supportive, and rewarding experience.